The process

How It Works

A calm, considered route to marriage, no swiping, no messaging, no pressure.

  1. Step 1

    Join Ray's TikTok Live as a Guest

    Join Ray live on TikTok as a guest to begin your matchmaking journey. This is where you'll introduce yourself and start the process.

  2. Step 2

    Ray Creates Your Profile Live

    During the live, Ray asks you questions about yourself, your lifestyle, your values and exactly what you're looking for in a spouse. Your marriage profile is created live during the session.

  3. Step 3

    Your Profile Goes Live

    Your profile is published on MatchByRay with a unique Profile ID. Your phone number, TikTok username and other private information remain completely private and are never displayed publicly.

  4. Step 4

    Someone Contacts Ray

    If someone is interested in your profile, they contact Ray through TikTok DM or WhatsApp and quote your Name, Age and Profile ID.

  5. Step 5

    Introduction

    If both people are interested, Ray personally introduces you so you can continue your marriage journey.