The process
How It Works
A calm, considered route to marriage, no swiping, no messaging, no pressure.
Step 1
Join Ray's TikTok Live as a Guest
Join Ray live on TikTok as a guest to begin your matchmaking journey. This is where you'll introduce yourself and start the process.
Step 2
Ray Creates Your Profile Live
During the live, Ray asks you questions about yourself, your lifestyle, your values and exactly what you're looking for in a spouse. Your marriage profile is created live during the session.
Step 3
Your Profile Goes Live
Your profile is published on MatchByRay with a unique Profile ID. Your phone number, TikTok username and other private information remain completely private and are never displayed publicly.
Step 4
Someone Contacts Ray
If someone is interested in your profile, they contact Ray through TikTok DM or WhatsApp and quote your Name, Age and Profile ID.
Step 5
Introduction
If both people are interested, Ray personally introduces you so you can continue your marriage journey.
