Our standards

Community Guidelines

Simple principles that keep MatchByRay safe, respectful and focused on marriage.

Be serious about marriage

MatchByRay is only for people genuinely seeking marriage. Please don't contact Ray out of curiosity or for casual conversation.

Be honest

Share truthful details about yourself when contacting Ray. False information will end your involvement.

Respect privacy

Never try to identify, locate or contact a member outside of Ray's introductions.

Be respectful

Treat Ray and every member with courtesy, in line with Islamic manners.

Write fair reviews

Reviews must be truthful and based on your own experience. Ray reviews every submission before it appears.